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Racism is Not a Mental Illness

On behalf of the Mental Health community, I would like to thank the general public for offering us the spotlight in the wake of the Charleston shootings, but we will go ahead and take a hard pass.

Let’s keep that light firmly planted on the Hate-Filled Racist community, where it belongs.

Because these are in fact two distinct, separate communities.

The mentally ill are far– FAR– more likely to hurt themselves than they are to hurt anyone else. They are also FAR more likely to be the victims of violent crimes than the perpetrators.

Racists are responsible for mass killings and genocide throughout this country, throughout the world, throughout our history.

I’m all for bringing awareness to the mental health cause, and encouraging the healing of a broken system, but let it be for the right reasons. Because taking action on mental illness only in the wake of mass violence just perpetuates the stigma– and stigma, without fail, is the greatest barrier to seeking help.

So back to this problem of racism, bigotry, and hate, please.

How are we going to fix that?

It’s Not About Mental Illness: The big lie that always follows mass shootings by white males.

Thank You, Administration 

I had a meeting with administration and the guardian of one of my students (mom couldn’t make it, so an older brother was coming in her place). I enter the main office for the meeting.

Administration: “Jon’s brother is outside in the hall. You can get him and tell him to come in.”

Me: “That guy sitting out there? That’s not the brother I met before.”

Administration: “Oh, well it must be a different brother. But it’s definitely one of Jon’s brothers.”

Me (trusting they know something I don’t): “Oh, ok.”

(walk out to hall, extend my hand to young man waiting in chair)

Me: “Hi! I’m Emily, Jon’s teacher. It’s nice to meet you.”

Nope. Not Jon’s brother.

Just a completely unrelated black guy.

Early Lessons in Racism

When I was in 5th grade, a kid in my class brought in about a dozen baby hamsters to give away to classmates who wanted them (a scenario that, as a teacher now, I can’t even believe was allowed to happen, but I digress)…

Of the roughly 12 hamsters, 11 were beige and 1 was black. I approached the hamster cage to make my choice (not having asked my parents permission to have a pet, just straight up assuming that because I wanted it, it shall be mine). I perused the choices and stated with authority, “I definitely think the beige ones are cuter.”

My teacher, who was a tyrant and certifiably batshit, got wide in the eyes and said, “That is extremely racist. You’re taking the black one.”

The black one had patches of fur missing. Its eyes were swollen shut. It had one ear.

My preference had nothing to do with color. Also, I was 10 years old. And it was A FUCKING HAMSTER.

Still. I never made that mistake again.

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Things We Know!

Lately, during my outdoor runs, I’ve been seeing a lot of these shirts:

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And obviously I’m a fan, as I am a supporter of any display of racial pride that doesn’t come from a white person.

But I’m just a little confused– is there an underlying assumption here that society doesn’t already know that black girls run?

You win EVERY MARATHON and EVERY OLYMPIC TRACK EVENT. We know you run. You run very, very fast.

Regardless, this seems to be an extremely popular brand, so if it’s lucrative to create a brand stating things we all know about certain demographics, then consider this shit trademarked:

Jews

white girlsmen

WOMEN

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You Can Be Gay Now!

See! Look! (You can’t have a mouth if you’re gay, though).

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Also, you can be Black (one particular shade only)! Or Asian (sort of)! Or Indian (I think?)! Or Jaundiced!

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But you can only be gay if you’re white. Because gay emojis only come in white.

I don’t make the rules, people.

This seems like it might be a giant step in the wrong direction.

(P.S. Doesn’t matter how white, black, gay or straight you are, you can NOT celebrate Chanukah. Sorry, had to stick a Jew gripe in there somewhere).

This Is Bad, Guys 

I was super excited about the new multi-racial emojis, so much so that I immediately tested out all the new skin tones the moment I downloaded my new system, sending this to my friend: 

  

But because he hadn’t updated his system, he just saw this: 

 

Turns out the non-white emojis don’t transfer to the old system, so if you try to use them, they’re replaced with aliens. 

Again, in case you missed that– any race other than white shows up AS AN ALIEN.  

This is very bad. 

And there’s STILL no taco.